Server-wide rules
The following rules apply to all channels in this server:
1. Read the channel descriptions and potential pinned messages before posting anywhere.
2. Remain respectful of other members. Ultimately, mutual agreement can’t always be reached: agree to disagree and don’t escalate a discussion into an argument.
3. Don't curse or swear unnecessarily. No slurs or attacks on race, creed, culture, sexual orientation, gender or sex will be tolerated.
4. Don’t post content that includes illegality, depicting acts of violence, self harm, explicit sexual content or topics that are NSFW.
5. Report abuses and harassment within the server and DMs by contacting the moderators with screenshots.
6. No advertising for personal gain of any kind. That includes self-promotion and invites to other servers.
7. Comply with moderators without questioning.
8. No medical advice is to be given or taken on this server. Please note that the members of this server are not qualified professionals and the advice given is based on personal experience.
9. Don't DM members with the "DMs off" role.
10. Don't @ mentors in channels other than #request-mentor.
11. Abide by the Terms of Service (https://discordapp.com/terms) and the Community Guidelines of Discord (https://discordapp.com/guidelines).
1. Read the channel descriptions and potential pinned messages before posting anywhere.
2. Remain respectful of other members. Ultimately, mutual agreement can’t always be reached: agree to disagree and don’t escalate a discussion into an argument.
3. Don't curse or swear unnecessarily. No slurs or attacks on race, creed, culture, sexual orientation, gender or sex will be tolerated.
4. Don’t post content that includes illegality, depicting acts of violence, self harm, explicit sexual content or topics that are NSFW.
5. Report abuses and harassment within the server and DMs by contacting the moderators with screenshots.
6. No advertising for personal gain of any kind. That includes self-promotion and invites to other servers.
7. Comply with moderators without questioning.
8. No medical advice is to be given or taken on this server. Please note that the members of this server are not qualified professionals and the advice given is based on personal experience.
9. Don't DM members with the "DMs off" role.
10. Don't @ mentors in channels other than #request-mentor.
11. Abide by the Terms of Service (https://discordapp.com/terms) and the Community Guidelines of Discord (https://discordapp.com/guidelines).
Did your post get deleted?
Your post got deleted because you either broke a rule or didn't follow a specific channel's usage instructions. Depending on the situation, a moderator may or may not say anything (repeated or willfully intended misuse may lead to disciplinary measures). The channels display how they may be used in their description or may have a pinned post that details them. They are short and simple to understand. Respect those rules and instructions to prevent your posts from being deleted.
Cursing/swearing
So that minors can participate on this server and so that we can keep the discussions civil, family-friendly, and positive, we disallow any cursing/swearing in the text channels on this server, except in #advice-nsfw. MEE6 automatically deletes posts with curse words and warns the member. If you typed out a long text and want to copy and fix it, you can find it in #dirty-mouths. Here's a list of disallowed words:
arse, arsehole, ass, asslicker, asshole, bitch, bullshit, cock, cocksucker, cuck, cucked, cucking, cunt, dick, dickhead, fck, fuck, fucked, fucking, gtfo, hoe, hoes, hooker, motherfucker, mf, nigger, piss, pissed, pissing, pisspot, pussy, retard, retarded, shit, shits, shitty, thot, titty, titties, whore,
Beware when you join a voice channel. Cursing/swearing is allowed in all of them.
The "Advice NSFW" voice channel is strictly 18+! Known offenders will be immediately and permanently banned!
arse, arsehole, ass, asslicker, asshole, bitch, bullshit, cock, cocksucker, cuck, cucked, cucking, cunt, dick, dickhead, fck, fuck, fucked, fucking, gtfo, hoe, hoes, hooker, motherfucker, mf, nigger, piss, pissed, pissing, pisspot, pussy, retard, retarded, shit, shits, shitty, thot, titty, titties, whore,
Beware when you join a voice channel. Cursing/swearing is allowed in all of them.
The "Advice NSFW" voice channel is strictly 18+! Known offenders will be immediately and permanently banned!
DMing other members
An unfortunate side-effect of running a server where people ask for and receive advice in dating and romance is that a lot of men join the server to message random women that they find on the list of members. Of course, if a woman receives unsolicited DMs from random males all the time, then they are being harassed, and we cannot allow that kind of behavior. We want people from all backgrounds and genders to be able to participate in a positive environment. We also want more women to share their thoughts on our server because their insight into relationships is valuable. We enforce a zero-tolerance policy towards any form of harassment through DMs or otherwise to create an environment where everyone, especially women, will feel safe and willing to participate actively. If you're being harassed, send any of the moderators a DM with screenshots. It is up to the moderators' discretion to decide what does and what doesn't constitute harassment.